A few tips on how to deal with BBW haters

If you like BBW dating, it means you are a tall, beautiful woman, or an admirer of BBW and really like curvy, sexy women. Online tinder hookup is a fun, honest, loving and warm community where like-minded people gather in a safe place. But the "outside world" is not always so. In the "real world" things can get a little ugly, and as every BBW will tell you, there are plenty of people who don't particularly like overweight women. They feel that everyone should meet their own standards of beauty, but unfortunately sometimes they are not afraid to speak up in front of you.

Obviously, this is very difficult for the BBWs, and their tender hookup partners or dates often have to deal with ACTS of defiance, disapproval, or even outright aggression. Here are some tips on how to learn to ignore, shut down, and shut down haters and physical shaming.

Build your confidence

When someone gets in your way, if your first reaction is depression, anxiety or anger, it means you haven't dealt with it well enough. Our goal is zero response, which may not be possible, but you can keep working on it and basically increase your tolerance level. To do this, you need to have a lot of confidence. Confidence is basically self-love. Everyone, big or small, fet life or thin life , needs to love her or himself. Take the time to understand who you are, what your values and qualities are, where you are from, and where you are going. When you realize how precious and valuable you are, your confidence will soar and no one will hurt you with their mean words.

Never be ashamed of yourself

It really catches on when people say bad things about you. You may slip into that negative mindset, which is never a good thing. Don't humiliate yourself. Don't be too hard on yourself. Again, self-love is key. Even if you eat a gallon of ice cream you promised you wouldn't, don't call yourself a nasty, body-shaming name. Instead, try to figure out why you didn't keep your promise to yourself. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Keep smiling

A smile is an incredible weapon. It can knock down even the strongest walls. The next time someone embarrasses you for not being the thinnest person in the world, just show them your biggest, most irresistible smile. It will discard them completely. They'll be confused that you're not upset, and then the tables will turn - and you'll be in a position of power. In addition, a bright smile is a good way to spread positive emotions, it may also eliminate your enemies. Maybe they will become less rude, who knows?

Keep your distance

Unfortunately, haters can sometimes be people close to you, friends, neighbors, relatives, or even family members. If someone around you is trying to physically humiliate you or your date, it may be time to distance yourself from them. A friend who says such ugly, hurtful things is not your true friend, even if she or he is using friendship and caring as an excuse to hide his hatred and bigotry. In your environment, you need love, love, fun, happiness and understanding, not discrimination (no matter how indirect), judgment and bullying.